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		<title>A guide to prenatal care for SWFL moms from a local doctor</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 28 Mar 2024 14:36:26 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Prenatal care helps prevent complications and protects expectant mothers and their infants. Get tips on healthy habits during pregnancy.</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Expecting a baby can be an exciting time. Healthy babies begin with healthy parents. Prenatal care helps prevent complications and protects expectant mothers and their infants.</p>
<p>Prioritizing nutrition with a well-balanced diet rich in essential nutrients before and during your pregnancy is crucial for a healthy and prosperous journey to motherhood and encourages optimal development of your baby.</p>
<h5><strong>Here are tips for healthy habits during pregnancy</strong></h5>
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<li>Stay active with low-impact exercises to help to keep blood sugar levels down. Types of healthy exercise include walking, yoga, and swimming.</li>
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<li>Fill half your plate with non-starchy veggies, such as leafy greens,  tomatoes, zucchini, and cucumbers. Fill the rest of your plate with whole grains and protein. This will ensure you eat enough fiber and nutrient-packed vegetables while balancing proportions for grains and protein.</li>
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<li>Lean proteins help your baby grow strong. A good mix of plant-based and animal-based protein is ideal. Try plant-based proteins like lentils, beans, chickpeas, tofu, tempeh, and edamame.</li>
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<li>Aim for low-fat animal-based protein options such as chicken breast, lean turkey, or low-mercury fish, including salmon, rainbow trout, and cod. Eggs are a great source of protein and choline, which are good for the baby’s brain and spinal cord.</li>
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<li>Choose whole grains, legumes, and veggies while limiting high-carb foods such as bread, tortillas, rice, pasta, fast food, chips, candy and ice cream. Opt for complex carbs like brown rice, popcorn, whole wheat bread, oatmeal, beans, nuts, lentils, and veggies.</li>
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<li>Cut down on sugary and processed foods. Pick natural sweeteners and whole fruits instead. Limit sugary drinks, which can disrupt your metabolism, causing energy crashes.</li>
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<li>Drink about 8 to 12 cups (64 to 96 ounces) of water daily, and avoid drinks with caffeine like coffee, black tea, and many sodas. Water helps to digest foods, is better for the baby, and helps to circulate nutrients throughout the body.</li>
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<li>Too much salt can increase your blood pressure and cause your body to hold water, swell your feet, lead to headaches, or change your vision. One teaspoon of salt is recommended daily for a healthy pregnant woman. Mothers with diabetes or kidney disease should have even less salt.</li>
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<li>Take prenatal vitamins, which include calcium needed for strong bones, magnesium for muscle, iron to prevent anemia, and folic acid (a form of Vitamin B) that helps develop your baby’s brain.</li>
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<li>Pregnancy might come with unexpected challenges, which healthy habits can help prevent or manage.</li>
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<p><strong>Hypertension (high blood pressure)</strong> can arise at around 20 weeks of pregnancy, even if you’ve never had high blood pressure before. It may cause uncomfortable symptoms like swelling in your hands, feet, and face. Regular check-ins and close blood pressure monitoring can lower the chances of any potential complications. </p>
<p><strong>Pre-eclampsia</strong> can happen to any woman during the second half of her pregnancy or up to six weeks after delivery. While there may be no symptoms, high blood pressure and protein in the urine are key indicators. Other symptoms can include headache, severe abdominal pain, seeing spots, nausea or vomiting, swelling of the hands and face, and/or gaining more than 5 pounds in one week.  </p>
<p><strong>Gestational diabetes</strong> can occur during pregnancy, even if you don’t already have diabetes. It can increase the size of the baby and lead to the mom developing Type 2 diabetes later in life. Pregnancy brings significant changes to your body and hormones that can affect your body’s ability to regulate blood sugar levels. Monitoring your weight and blood sugar throughout pregnancy can help lower the risk of complications.</p>
<p>By closely working together and monitoring your pregnancy, doctors can reduce the chances of complications and improve health outcomes for you and your baby. They check your blood pressure and urine, and listen to the baby’s heartbeat,  and check developmental markers to ensure there areno concerning symptoms.  </p>
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<p><em>John Carini, MD, is the medical director of women’s health for Healthcare Network. In addition to in-office prenatal visits, Healthcare Network’s OB (Obstetric) Telehealth Program offers personalized support for high-risk pregnancies through virtual appointments and monitoring devices that may include a glucometer (measures blood sugar), blood pressure cuff, and weight scale. To schedule an appointment, visit <a href="http://Expecting a baby can be an exciting time. Healthy babies begin with healthy parents. Prenatal care helps prevent complications and protects expectant mothers and their infants. Prioritizing nutrition with a well-balanced diet rich in essential nutrients before and during your pregnancy is crucial for a healthy and prosperous journey to motherhood and encourages optimal development of your baby. Here are tips for healthy habits during pregnancy Stay active with low-impact exercises to help to keep blood sugar levels down. Types of healthy exercise include walking, yoga, and swimming. Fill half your plate with non-starchy veggies, such as leafy greens,  tomatoes, zucchini, and cucumbers. Fill the rest of your plate with whole grains and protein. This will ensure you eat enough fiber and nutrient-packed vegetables while balancing proportions for grains and protein. Lean proteins help your baby grow strong. A good mix of plant-based and animal-based protein is ideal. Try plant-based proteins like lentils, beans, chickpeas, tofu, tempeh, and edamame. Aim for low-fat animal-based protein options such as chicken breast, lean turkey, or low-mercury fish, including salmon, rainbow trout, and cod. Eggs are a great source of protein and choline, which are good for the baby’s brain and spinal cord. Choose whole grains, legumes, and veggies while limiting high-carb foods such as bread, tortillas, rice, pasta, fast food, chips, candy and ice cream. Opt for complex carbs like brown rice, popcorn, whole wheat bread, oatmeal, beans, nuts, lentils, and veggies. Cut down on sugary and processed foods. Pick natural sweeteners and whole fruits instead. Limit sugary drinks, which can disrupt your metabolism, causing energy crashes. Drink about 8 to 12 cups (64 to 96 ounces) of water daily, and avoid drinks with caffeine like coffee, black tea, and many sodas. Water helps to digest foods, is better for the baby, and helps to circulate nutrients throughout the body. Too much salt can increase your blood pressure and cause your body to hold water, swell your feet, lead to headaches, or change your vision. One teaspoon of salt is recommended daily for a healthy pregnant woman. Mothers with diabetes or kidney disease should have even less salt. Take prenatal vitamins, which include calcium needed for strong bones, magnesium for muscle, iron to prevent anemia, and folic acid (a form of Vitamin B) that helps develop your baby’s brain. Pregnancy might come with unexpected challenges, which healthy habits can help prevent or manage. Some of these conditions include: Hypertension (high blood pressure) can arise at around 20 weeks of pregnancy, even if you’ve never had high blood pressure before. It may cause uncomfortable symptoms like swelling in your hands, feet, and face. Regular check-ins and close blood pressure monitoring can lower the chances of any potential complications.  Pre-eclampsia can happen to any woman during the second half of her pregnancy or up to six weeks after delivery. While there may be no symptoms, high blood pressure and protein in the urine are key indicators. Other symptoms can include headache, severe abdominal pain, seeing spots, nausea or vomiting, swelling of the hands and face, and/or gaining more than 5 pounds in one week.   Gestational diabetes can occur during pregnancy, even if you don’t already have diabetes. It can increase the size of the baby and lead to the mom developing Type 2 diabetes later in life. Pregnancy brings significant changes to your body and hormones that can affect your body’s ability to regulate blood sugar levels. Monitoring your weight and blood sugar throughout pregnancy can help lower the risk of complications. By closely working together and monitoring your pregnancy, doctors can reduce the chances of complications and improve health outcomes for you and your baby. They check your blood pressure and urine, and listen to the baby’s heartbeat,  and check developmental markers to ensure there areno concerning symptoms.   John Carini, MD, is the medical director of women’s health for Healthcare Network. In addition to in-office prenatal visits, Healthcare Network’s OB (Obstetric) Telehealth Program offers personalized support for high-risk pregnancies through virtual appointments and monitoring devices that may include a glucometer (measures blood sugar), blood pressure cuff, and weight scale. To schedule an appointment, visit healthcareswfl.org or call 239-658-3000.">healthcareswfl.org</a> or call 239-658-3000.</em></p>
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		<title>Naples Mom Speaks Out About Postpartum Depression</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 11 May 2023 11:51:02 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Naples mom Jen Sanchez speaks frankly with Neapolitan Family about her experience with postpartum depression, and how it escalated during her second pregnancy.</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Jen Sanchez is usually a happy, bubbly person. She lights up a room with her cheeriness and funny stories. But that all changed when her second daughter was born.</p>
<p>“Postpartum depression is real, and it sucks,” Sanchez said. “Never in a million years did I think my happy and laughing butt would be on an antidepressant, but here I am. I have an awesome and supportive family, but you can’t control your hormones.”</p>
<p>Sanchez knew that new mothers sometimes feel ashamed of these feelings, so she wanted to share her story and let people know that there is no shame, the feelings are real, and they are not something a new mom can control. So shortly after her daughter was born she posted about her experience on Facebook.</p>
<p>Angela is now 2 years old and Samantha is 8 months old. Sanchez said she believes she had a bit of postpartum depression with her first daughter, but it was worse with the second one.</p>
<p>“I cried a lot with Angela, but it was different with Samantha, just the feelings that I had. I cried every morning. It is way worse this time,” Sanchez described. </p>
<p>The feelings can be scary and confusing. Sanchez loves being a mother. She loves snuggling with her daughters on the couch and reading to them. She loves holding them and being with them. That’s why the sadness can seem perplexing and overwhelming.</p>
<p>“I would just wake up in the mornings feeling really anxious,” she described. “I got to the point where I couldn’t be alone. There was a feeling of guilt. When I was holding one baby, I felt guilty that I was not spending time with the other. With Angela, she has some delays and eye issues and is underperforming, and I felt like I was not doing enough. It was just mom guilt. I think that just spiraled me down.”</p>
<p>When her husband left for work each day, she couldn’t bear to be alone. She realized she needed some extra support, so she would spend her days with the girls at her mother’s house, while on maternity leave from her job teaching at a local elementary school.</p>
<p>“Before I was coming here, I would look at the clock and count down the hours until my husband came home,” she described. “I wanted to do it on my own. I thought I could do it. Then I would look at the children, and I would start crying. I couldn’t read without crying. I couldn’t sing without crying. It was just cry, cry, cry.”</p>
<p>Sanchez says she has every reason to be happy, so the sadness felt strange.</p>
<p>“They are so beautiful,” she said as she held her daughters. “I am crying because I can’t believe they are mine. I have a happy marriage. I have everything I have wanted in life.”</p>
<p>Having the support of her family was not enough. So when a friend suggested that she talk to her doctor about postpartum depression, she headed to her physician.</p>
<p>Her doctor prescribed Prozac, which is an antidepressant.</p>
<p>“It took a couple of days,” she said. “The first week or so, I was feeling the anxiety and panic, but it has gotten a lot better. The pills are supposed to make you feel like you used to feel, and that’s how I feel now.”</p>
<p>Her journey is not unusual. Andrea Press of Press Psychology in Naples says it is extremely common to have some sort of issue after giving birth. While postpartum depression is more common in people who have a history of depression, Press said it can affect anyone.</p>
<p>“A lot of times there is no reason why,” Press said.</p>
<p>She praises people like Sanchez who are not afraid to talk about postpartum depression.</p>
<p>“Some people are scared to tell their doctor,” Press said. “It is really challenging. You have to advocate for yourself, and that is hard when all this is happening.”</p>
<p>She said society also plays a role in this.</p>
<p>“Part of it is the overall stigma of mental health,” Press said. “There is so much pressure on what a new mom should be like. And so many people ask how the baby is, but not how the mom is.”</p>
<p>She said many people and even some doctors don’t recognize the problem.</p>
<p>“A lot of times you have certain expectations on how your maternity leave will go, and how you will connect with the baby, and when that doesn’t happen you think it is something that you did wrong.” Press explained. “Once you deliver the baby there is a huge drop in hormones. When they say baby blues, that is pretty common, but if it has been more than two weeks, it is not baby blues anymore, and we have to do something.”</p>
<p>Press hopes more people seek help and also speak more about it to reduce the stigma.</p>
<p>“Just becoming a mom is hard,” she said. “It is not all rainbows and butterflies.”</p>
<p>It can be especially hard having two children within 18 months. There was the exhaustion. Samantha was going through cluster feeding for a while. There was the guilt when Angela wanted to be held, but Sanchez needed to tend to the infant.</p>
<p>When Sanchez first posted her journey on Facebook in December, she got dozens and dozens of comments, many from people who also struggled with postpartum depression. Some added information on their experiences, while others sent words of encouragement.</p>
<p>Lisa Michelle wrote about her struggles and how Prozac helped her too.</p>
<p>“It’s a long road, but you can and will get through it,” she stated. “I still want to cry when I think about the struggles I went through. I promise it gets easier – just keep climbing.”</p>
<p>“Postpartum depression is real,” wrote Becky Wright. “Honestly, I didn’t think life would ever get better. It’s hard to see the light, but I promise you, it’s there. Take one day, or hour, or even minute at a time. And, try to do something for yourself every day – a shower, a walk, anything counts. You’ve got this.”</p>
<p>“It is very real,” added Meredith Myers. “I had it bad, too. Hang in there momma, you’re doing a great job. Seeking help is what I had to do, too, and I felt embarrassed, but my doctor made it much easier to talk about.”</p>
<p>Kristie Allred wrote: “Thank you for sharing, so it doesn’t feel so lonely for others.”</p>
<p>Sanchez said sharing her experiences helped her see she was not alone. It helped her connect with others, and it gave her the satisfaction of providing support for people who might be afraid to talk about it.</p>
<p>“Like miscarriages, [postpartum depression] just isn’t spoken about, but is very common,” Sanchez stated. “I totally understand a private life and keeping things to yourself, or wanting to share life updates with the world. I personally decided to post since I knew it was common. So again, if you aren’t feeling yourself, it is worth a call to your doctor or even a Facebook post and others will reach out. It takes a village to not only raise kids, but to take care of each other.”</p>
<p>Today, Sanchez is doing much better. She plans to stay on the medication for a while, but she hopes to wean off of it eventually. She is now back teaching second grade, while knowing her little girls are safe at her mom’s house while she works. She loves reading to them, singing and dancing with them, and going for walks with her girls. She praises her husband, Mike, for all his support. She said things like positive self-talk, meditation, and exercise also can help.</p>
<p>“Don’t be afraid to reach out if you feel there is something that is not right,” Sanchez stressed. “There is no need to be ashamed. The more you talk about it, the more people will come to you. It is such a taboo subject, but I am not ashamed of it. People are just embarrassed. People don’t want to talk about private issues. I am a person that wants to talk about things. By reaching out I might help someone who is going through this.”</p>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>There is a local Facebook group for every kind of parent of every kind of family.</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Moms everywhere love information, cautionary tales, and personal experiences. More importantly, many moms just want to belong to a community of other moms, like themselves, who they can connect with in real life or online.</p>
<p>I did a brief inventory of my own group membership and found over 38 groups that had the word mom, family, or parent in the title. I belong to the groups I administrate for <em>Neapolitan Family</em>, plus some based on local mom interests, parents of students at Florida State University, University of Florida, and parents of students at both FSU and UF. Parents of Greeks, parents of pre-law, parents of study abroad, parents who belong to my same religion, and parents that have children with a disease in common.</p>
<p>There seems to be a Facebook group for every kind of parent of every kind of family. Launched in 2010, nearly six years after the inception of Facebook, groups can be public, private, or secret, and members can be accepted, denied, and blocked by the administrators and moderators. Even though most groups now offer the anonymous post option to maintain a safe space for the members, nothing on Facebook is ever 100% private.</p>
<p>In the pandemic era, communicating in groups became an even more important way for moms to stay connected. And, in response to difficulties brought on by the pandemic and the recent catastrophic hurricane, some groups began to offer financial support and donations to struggling moms, and even staged a few middle of the night escapes to women suffering from domestic abuse.</p>
<p>I spoke to several local moms’ groups, and one created just for dads, about the evolution of their groups and how they became such a powerful source of support in our community.</p>
<p><strong>Naples Moms 2.0: 21,100 members</strong></p>
<p>The Naples Moms Group (2.0) was founded in 2018 by Naples Realtor Judy Huntley. She created the group the same day that the original Naples Moms Group was archived without warning. Because of the size of the group, Judy relies on moderators Nadine Eubanks and Renee Kirnon to monitor posts and approve new members. The group is made up of new and seasoned moms, grandmothers, and moms-to-be.</p>
<p>The most popular topics are not surprising: baby weaning, breast feeding, general parenting, marriage troubles, and searching for babysitters, photographers, day care, and health care providers. Not surprisingly, off-limit topics included politics and opinions about circumcision and vaccines.</p>
<p>There are sub groups for more specific conversations such as Naples Moms Marketplace for members to sell their personal items or to advertise their businesses, Naples Moms Virtual/Homeschooling Co-Op, Naples Moms Newcomers, as well as their own neighborhood page, Golden Gate Estates Neighbors: Advice, Tips &amp; News.</p>
<p>The group also has hosted an annual holiday bazaar event, complete with mom-owned business vendors, entertainment, and food trucks.</p>
<p>Harnessing help beyond advice became a huge focus of the group in recent years. “During COVID, we paid rents and utilities and brought groceries to our fellow moms in need who found themselves suddenly without income,” Huntley told us. “We mobilized again after Hurricane Ian as we filled our members’ trunks with donated goods and brought them directly to the hardest hit areas in both Naples and Fort Myers, offering hope, water, ice, diapers, and even insulin. We fed an entire apartment complex of kids that hadn’t had power in weeks with a huge pizza party and brought loads of diapers and wipes.”</p>
<p>In addition to recent crises, the group raises thousands of dollars each Christmas and sends that money to surprise dozens of families who needed a little miracle. They also have helped pediatric cancer patients go on Disney trips, and delivered a carload of gifts, goods, and gift cards to a secret women’s shelter in Immokalee.</p>
<p>“We have a secret side group of women who have the resources to move mountains, and I can reach out to them with the bigger tasks,” Huntley says.</p>
<p>“One time, a group member submitted an anonymous post about needing a bus ticket out of here to get to family and away from an abuser,” she reflects. “My daughter and I drove straight over and brought them to The Shelter Naples. We ended up caring for her daughter briefly while she worked and got on her feet. I am happy and proud to say that today she is doing amazing, is employed, has her own place, and is getting married to a wonderful man. I am so proud to know her.”</p>
<p>Huntley says helping women who need to leave abusive relationships and start over has been some of the most “meaningful moments of my life.”</p>
<p><strong>The Real Moms of Naples: 13,000 members</strong></p>
<p>Around the same time Naples Moms 2.0 was created, another local mom and Realtor, Karly Carballea, created her own group. The Real Moms of Naples also is made up of all kinds of moms and caregivers who often belong to both groups to increase their crowdsourcing of information and opinions. For that reason, Carballea recently changed the name from Moms of Naples to The Real Moms of Naples so people would not get confused as to which group they were posting in. The topics are similar to the other mom groups but, according to Carbella, no subject is off limits as long as the conversation remains kind and respectful.</p>
<p>Carballea plans a monthly event that any member can attend so that they can meet other moms in real life and become friends, while patronizing the small, local businesses that often struggled during the pandemic and recent hurricanes. She also has planned volunteer events for local nonprofits such as Beverly’s Angels and Salvation Army, including a pop-up shop where families could select necessities from donated items. She currently is working on a project that will include a quarterly nonprofit event.</p>
<p><strong>Naples Moms of Tweens and Teens (MOTTS): 1,118 members</strong></p>
<p>This group was created by three moms because the local social media groups available in our area in 2019 were geared toward moms of infants, toddlers, and younger elementary-age children. “Parenting tweens and teens introduces daily challenges and practices in patience,” moderator Jennifer Stoneburner explains. “This group has developed a relaxed environment where moms understand that they are not alone in riding the roller coaster of parenting adolescents and budding adults.”</p>
<p>Stoneburner says that the best thing about the group is that the moms do not judge, and instead find ways to support, understand, and sympathize with one another.</p>
<p>She says the most popular posts are those that shine a humorous light on this chapter in our journey. Off-limit topics include religion, politics, and hate speech.</p>
<p>The group hosts a MOTTS Night Out the first week each month at a locally owned establishment, in addition to occasional daytime coffee meet-ups. “Personally, it has been amazing to observe the fellowship and the camaraderie among a group of like-minded women,” Stoneburner says. “Friendships have been forged in these monthly meet-ups, and that is what it is all about.”</p>
<p><strong>The Posh Mama Club of Naples: 118 members</strong></p>
<p>Moms who trend toward a more glamorous lifestyle, or who aspire to, will find like-minded mamas in The Posh Mama Club of Naples. Founded by Emely Darby, a former corporate social responsibility and public relations director, the club was created to become a safe haven for fashion-forward mothers who want a little bit of glitz and glam in between the tantrums, diaper changes, and chaos. </p>
<p>TPMC focuses on the mothers’ morale through fashion expression, networking, empowerment, and fun, Darby says. She is proud that this is a diverse group of like-minded current/former entrepreneurs, educators, attorneys, brokers, physicians, and stay-at-home mamas who share a passion for fashion, beauty, and staying active within the community.</p>
<p>Darby says that the most popular group topics are self-identity, empowerment, latest trends, business goals, self-reflection, and the next brunch or happy hour spot, with the goal of creating “genuine friendships with women who feel the same and creating a safe space away from conflict.”</p>
<p>The group hosts at least four private socials per month, plus a book club and a Posh Kids social.</p>
<p>TPMC hosts an annual “PoshGiving” to benefit The Shelter for Abused Women and Children, and has collaborated with Cancer Alliance of Naples, Humane Society, Make-A-Wish, Golisano Children’s Museum of Naples, and Juvenile Diabetes Research Foundation South Gulf Coast Chapter. </p>
<p><strong>Dads of Naples: 202 members</strong></p>
<p>Are there any Facebook groups just for local dads? We found one. Dads of Naples is moderated by Jay Weitzner, who owns Symmetry Exercise Clinic in Naples. The group was created for dads to have a place to connect and have a “dad-perspective” of events, topics, and things to do in general. While the group does not have as many members as the moms’ groups, Weitzner plans to host live events to build the group, which he says is diverse in every way, including, politically, professionally, and economically, but “it’s no Reddit,” he jokes.</p>
<p><em>We regret that Karly Carbellea&#8217;s name was misspelled in the May issue.</em></p>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>When do we pack it? What do we put in it? It can feel like a big task, but it really doesn’t have to be a stressful one.To help you feel less stressed and more prepared, I am sharing what is on my packing list for our third baby and a printable list</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>WHAT YOU REALLY NEED IN YOUR HOSPITAL BAG FOR LABOR AND DELIVERY:</p>
<p>As we enter the third trimester of pregnancy, one of the biggest things on our mind is the coveted hospital bag. <em>When do we pack it? What do we put in it? </em>It can feel like a big task, but it really doesn’t have to be a stressful one. Take it from me, a 3rd time mom who has been the under-prepared and the over-prepared before.</p>
<p>3 weeks before I was due with my first baby, I became the under-prepared mom. I was heading out the door to buy a bassinet and some other items I still needed for baby when my water broke. I had researched what to pack, but that was as far as I had gone. Picture me, mid-contractions, trying to gather random things throughout my house to throw into a bag.</p>
<p>The second time around, I majorly over-compensated. I packed almost everything in the entire house over a month before baby was due. I felt so proud and prepared, until it was time to actually go to the hospital and they thought I was moving in for life.</p>
<p>Before we jump into our list, let me just reassure you: there is no <em>perfect or right way</em>. If you forget stuff, someone can bring it to you. If you pack too much, it’s no big deal. Do whatever makes you feel comfortable.</p>
<p>To help you feel less stressed and more prepared, I am sharing what is on my packing list for our third baby, due in March, and a printable version to make it even easier.</p>
<p>HOSPITAL BAG PACKING LIST: WHAT TO PACK FOR THE LABOR AND DELIVERY PART</p>
<p><strong>Lip Balm / Chapstick:</strong>I was desperate for chapstick during my first 13 hour, unmedicated labor. Regardless of what type of delivery you have, this is a must, and earns it’s spot at the top of the list for a reason.</p>
<p><strong>Hair Ties:</strong>You probably have these in your purse anywhere you go, but you certainly don’t want to be mid-labor and unable to put your hair up. Make sure you have a few in your hospital bag, since they like to disappear!</p>
<p><strong>Warm Socks: </strong>Hospitals are cold, and even nice birth centers can feel cool and uncomfortable. You&#8217;ll want comfy, warm socks to lounge in, and also walk the halls in if you can. Try to get non-slip socks in case you do the walking! I walked a lot during labor. Some hospitals, like The Birth Place at NCH, provide these, but bring yours just in case!</p>
<p><strong>Big water bottle with straw:</strong>I have delivered both of my children at The Birth Place at NCH. Both times they gave me a really nice, large cup with a handle, lid, and straw. Those cups became my favorite even after I left the hospital. Unless you know for sure that you&#8217;ll be given one at your birth center, bring one!</p>
<p><strong>Phone and phone charger:</strong>This may seem obvious, but it’s the obvious things that end up forgotten. Even if you&#8217;re not the one using your phone during labor, you will want to have this with you. Don’t forget the charger!</p>
<p><strong>Headphones:</strong>Music helped me so much during labor! You can make yourself a playlist ahead of time if you want to be extra prepared. I also used my phone for this.</p>
<p><strong>Camera:</strong>Should I add a <em>charged</em> battery with the camera? Unless you use your phone for pictures.</p>
<p><strong>Snacks:</strong>I personally could not eat during labor, but my husband was starving the first time around and had no food. The second time around I packed lots of snacks. After my daughter was born I had a rice krispie treat. It was quite possibly the best snack I&#8217;ve ever had.</p>
<p><strong>Mints:</strong>I liked to have these handy during and after labor.</p>
<p>THE &#8220;POST DELIVERY STUFF&#8221;</p>
<p><strong>Comfortable PJs or clothes that you feel good in, easy for nursing</strong>:I recommend buying yourself a new set or two of PJs or comfortable clothes that are reserved for your hospital stay and after. You&#8217;ll feel better seeing tons of people in and out of your room if you&#8217;re in clothes that you feel good in. However, you will also want to feel comfortable and be able to nurse easily. Try to avoid <em>white. </em>Just in case.</p>
<p><strong>Robe/Sweater:</strong>It gets chilly in the hospital and you&#8217;ll want that extra layer of comfort, I recommend bringing a comfy robe or a sweater. My husband gifted me a really nice robe before baby #2 was born. I loved having it in the hospital and still use it today!</p>
<p><strong>Slippers/Flip-Flops:</strong>You may not want to stay in those comfy socks the entire time you&#8217;re there. Having a comfy &#8220;shoe&#8221; option to walk around the hall with baby is good!</p>
<p><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Platonee-Seamless-Maternity-Breastfeeding-Extenders/dp/B0784BS4DJ/ref=as_li_ss_tl?s=hpc&amp;ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1543800267&amp;sr=1-2&amp;keywords=sleep+nursing+bra&amp;linkCode=sl1&amp;tag=onmoxieandmot-20&amp;linkId=0378de7fe71cd027c027616b32048221&amp;language=en_US"><strong>Sleep Nursing Bra</strong></a><strong>:</strong>Comfort is key in those first several days after labor. Bring a sleep nursing bra like this one.</p>
<p><strong>A pack of</strong><a href="https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B077D39FYQ/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;th=1&amp;linkCode=sl1&amp;tag=onmoxieandmot-20&amp;linkId=e028b2deff5d5085758b5fbf16da9721&amp;language=en_US"> <strong>these undies:</strong></a>.The hospital will provide mesh undies, but from what I remember, I didn&#8217;t like them and there are not enough of them for after you come home.<a href="https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B077D39FYQ/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;th=1&amp;linkCode=sl1&amp;tag=onmoxieandmot-20&amp;linkId=e028b2deff5d5085758b5fbf16da9721&amp;language=en_US"> Get something like these</a>, but note that the sizing is a little off and you should choose bigger than you think you need.</p>
<p><strong>Pillow and blanket:</strong>If you&#8217;re picky about your pillow and blanket, bring your own.</p>
<p><strong>Favorite body wash, shampoo and</strong> <strong>conditioner:</strong>The first shower you get to take post-labor makes you feel like a new person, but not if you have to use the hospital body wash and shampoo.</p>
<p><strong>Basic toiletries:</strong>You will want to feel human again for the remainder of your stay in the hospital, so be sure you have your toothbrush, toothpaste, makeup, hair brush, deodorant, and any other basic toiletries you use to get ready daily. I personally did not blowdry my hair in the hospital, but you may want a hair-dryer if you think you will use it.</p>
<p><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Earth-Mama-Pregnancy-Postpartum-Childbirth/dp/B0065ZTKWS/ref=as_li_ss_tl?s=baby-products&amp;ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1497914060&amp;sr=1-3&amp;keywords=earth+mama+angel+baby&amp;th=1&amp;linkCode=sl1&amp;tag=onmoxieandmot-20&amp;linkId=9080ca8913bb3fb5bd25ef13b22174cd&amp;language=en_US"><strong>Herbal Perineal spray</strong></a><strong>:</strong>Trust me on this one, get the spray. (Unless you know you are having a c-section.)</p>
<p><strong>Breast pads</strong>:If you plan to breastfeed, you&#8217;ll want these handy. <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Organic-Nursing-Laundry-Washable-Breastfeeding/dp/B01M34TZKJ/ref=as_li_ss_tl?s=baby-products&amp;ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1544323516&amp;sr=1-3-spons&amp;keywords=breast+pads&amp;psc=1&amp;linkCode=sl1&amp;tag=onmoxieandmot-20&amp;linkId=b1ea8e923c3c33586a6b24bdef4908e6&amp;language=en_US">I like these reusable ones,</a> but you can also use disposable breast pads if you prefer.<a href="https://www.amazon.com/Lansinoh-Nursing-Packs-Disposable-Breast/dp/B06XPHR7DF/ref=sr_1_1_s_it?s=baby-products&amp;ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1544638328&amp;sr=1-1-spons&amp;keywords=breast+pads&amp;psc=1"> I have used these before and liked them.</a></p>
<p><strong>Tablet, book, or some other form of entertainment:</strong>I used my computer both times after having babies because I was bored just sitting there. You may want a tablet, a book, or some other form of entertainment.</p>
<p><strong>Clothes to go home in:</strong>You will want something comfortable that you feel good in, as you will most likely be taking a picture in this.</p>
<p>BABY HOSPITAL BAG PACKING LIST</p>
<p>The hospital will supply diapers and wipes, so unless you plan to use special diapers from the beginning, save what you have at home. Here is my hospital bag packing list for baby:</p>
<p><strong>Nursing pillow:</strong>A good nursing pillow was one of my favorite things to have with a newborn. I had one<a href="https://www.amazon.com/Nursing-Pattern-Slipcover-Breastfeeding-Pillows/dp/B06WVSSVNK/ref=as_li_ss_tl?s=baby-products&amp;ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1544324480&amp;sr=1-12&amp;keywords=nursing+pillow&amp;th=1&amp;linkCode=sl1&amp;tag=onmoxieandmot-20&amp;linkId=bf4fa2848b797fe91a7634eb58b6f494&amp;language=en_US"> similar to this</a> for my first two babies. I personally don&#8217;t like the ones that strap around your back. That seemed inconvenient and uncomfortable to me, but it&#8217;s all about personal preference.</p>
<p><strong>Baby Blanket:</strong>The hospital will provide a baby blanket (or possibly a few) for your little one, but it&#8217;s likely that you&#8217;ll have a cute new favorite you want your babe pictured in.</p>
<p><strong>Sleeper/PJs:</strong>The hospital also provides a onesie/basic outfit for the baby, but we all know we have those cute newborn PJs and outfits waiting for our new babes. Bring 1-3, not 10 of them. There will be plenty of time to dress them in every single outfit later. For now think warmth and comfort for you <em>and baby</em>.</p>
<p><strong>The coming home outfit:</strong>This is one of the things <em>I did not forget the first time around</em>, because it’s something all new moms seem to plan for and pick out ahead of time.</p>
<p><strong>Burp Cloths:</strong>You should be fine with 2-3 burp clothes for your hospital stay, just in case.</p>
<p><strong>Pacifier:</strong> The Birth Place gave the babies their first pacifiers. My son never used, and my daughter loved hers. Regardless, you can bring this if you have something special, but most likely the hospital will provide one and it’s better not to lose the ones you have.</p>
<p><strong>Installed car seat:</strong> Do yourself, or have your husband do himself, a favor ahead of time and get this installed and ready before it&#8217;s go-time for baby.</p>
<p><strong>HOSPITAL BAG PACKING LIST FOR DAD</strong></p>
<p><strong>Clothes:</strong>Mostly comfortable, but if you will be doing pictures keep that in mind.</p>
<p><strong>Pillow and blanket:</strong>The hospital will provide a pillow and blanket for Dad, but they aren&#8217;t great. If he&#8217;s picky at all, bring him his own so he&#8217;s a little bit more comfortable.</p>
<p><strong>Toiletries:</strong>Dad will want to be able to freshen up too!</p>
<p><strong>Snacks:</strong>This is already on the list for you, but don&#8217;t forget to bring enough for Dad!</p>
<p><strong>Money for food:</strong>Dad will probably also want to do some food runs, so make sure he&#8217;s prepared!</p>
<p><strong>Entertainment:</strong>Just like you, Dad may want a tablet, computer, book, or whatever else he can use for entertainment.</p>
<p><strong>Bottled Drinks:</strong>Be prepared with at least a few bottled drinks for Dad in case he can&#8217;t get out to get something for a while.</p>
<p>OTHER ESSENTIALS FOR YOUR HOSPITAL BAG PACKING LIST</p>
<p>There are a few other important things you&#8217;ll want to be sure you have handy for all of the logistic stuff.</p>
<p><strong>Insurance Card/Information</strong></p>
<p><strong>Birth Plan (if you have one)</strong></p>
<p><strong>Driver&#8217;s License</strong></p>
<p><strong>Pediatrician Contact Info</strong></p>
<p><strong>Social Security Card (or just having your # memorized should suffice)</strong></p>
<p>OLDER SIBLINGS WILL NEED A FEW THINGS!</p>
<p>Even if they aren&#8217;t there for the birth, chances are the older siblings will be visiting the hospital. Here are a few recommendations of what to put on your hospital bag packing list for older siblings:</p>
<p><strong>Big Brother/Big Sister</strong> <strong>Gift:</strong>When Alana was born, we gave Kaiper<a href="https://www.iseeme.com/en-us/super-incredible-big-brother-medal-and-personalized-childrens-book.html"> this adorable book called The Super, Incredible Big Brother</a> from<a href="https://www.iseeme.com/"> iseeme.com</a>. They have lots of cute options!</p>
<p><strong>Snacks:</strong>If the older siblings will be hanging out for a while, or if they are like my kids and they&#8217;ll be there for more than 5 minutes, make sure you have some snacks around for them!</p>
<p><strong>Entertainment:</strong>The new sibling gift, and the <em>new sibling</em>, may be enough to entertain them. However, if they are younger they may need an extra toy or activity to entertain them within the confines of a hospital room. This doesn&#8217;t necessarily have to come with you when you go into labor, but make sure whoever brings them to visit later brings something along!</p>
<p>That’s it! You may need some additional items that are important to you, like glasses or contact solution, essential oils, or medicines you need to take regularly. You can fill these specific items in on the printable hospital bag packing list in the &#8220;Other&#8221; section.</p>
<p><strong>WHEN YOU PACK YOUR HOSPITAL BAG</strong></p>
<p>From my experience, I would suggest having your hospital bag packed about 4 weeks before baby’s due date. Any time after that could be “go time”, as I found out, and you won’t need anything more to think about or do in those last few weeks. The most important thing to remember is that either way, it’s all going to work out just fine!</p>
<p><a href="https://www.onmoxieandmotherhood.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/12/Hospital-Bag-Packing-List-via-Neapolitan-Family.pdf">GRAB THE FREE PRINTABLE HOSPITAL BAG PACKING LIST HERE!</a></p>
<p>Read Jessica LeBrun&#8217;s blog, On Moxie and Motherhood for more posts about parenting, family, homeschooling and other topics at <a href="https://www.onmoxieandmotherhood.com">https://www.onmoxieandmotherhood.com.</a></p>
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