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		<title>How is the Super Mom Myth Shaping Burnout for Collier and Lee County Moms?</title>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>The super mom myth often looks like cold coffee on the counter, a never-ending to-do list, and the pressure to keep every ball in the air without ever dropping one. If you feel constantly exhausted, anxious, and guilty that you’re not doing enough, that’s not “just how motherhood is.” It has a name: mom burnout. [&#8230;]</p>
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<p class="wp-block-paragraph">The super mom myth often looks like cold coffee on the counter, a never-ending to-do list, and the pressure to keep every ball in the air without ever dropping one. If you feel constantly exhausted, anxious, and guilty that you’re not doing enough, that’s not “just how motherhood is.” It has a name: mom burnout. Once you see how mom burnout is affecting you, you can start to let go of perfection and make space for rest, joy, and support.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">You are not alone in feeling this way. Parents of children under 18 report higher stress levels than nonparents. When conversations about parenting focus only on the needs of the family, it can feel isolating and even shameful to admit you’re overwhelmed. You deserve care, too.</p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading" id="h-what-is-the-super-mom-myth-really">What is the super mom myth, really?</h2>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">The super mom myth tells you that a “good” mom does it all: homemade meals, spotless house, thriving career, calm attitude, and endless patience. In real life, this impossible standard turns into chronic stress and mom burnout.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Burnout in mothers can show up in your body, emotions, relationships, and daily routines. It often builds slowly as you keep saying yes, taking on more, and ignoring your own needs.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Common signs of mom burnout include:</p>



<ul class="wp-block-list">
<li>Exhaustion, fatigue, or feeling tired all the time</li>



<li>Annoyance, irritability, or a quick temper</li>



<li>Withdrawing from family or your usual support system</li>



<li>Feelings of guilt, regret, or “I’m not a good mom”</li>



<li>Lack of fulfillment or confidence in parenting</li>



<li>Trouble concentrating or falling and staying asleep</li>



<li>“Analysis paralysis” or difficulty making decisions</li>



<li>Changes in appetite</li>
</ul>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Some moms are at higher risk for burnout, including single moms, working moms, moms facing financial hardships or discrimination, and moms of children with special needs or chronic medical conditions. Noticing these signs is the first step toward loosening the grip of the super mom myth.</p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading" id="h-how-can-i-let-go-of-unrealistic-super-mom-expectations">How can I let go of unrealistic “super mom” expectations?</h2>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">The perfect mother doesn’t exist because you are human, not a superhero. The super mom myth often starts with tiny thoughts: “I should be able to handle this,” or “Everyone else is doing more than I am.” Letting go of those expectations can give you instant breathing room.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">You do not have to do everything yourself. Try simple ways to take some weight off your shoulders:</p>



<ul class="wp-block-list">
<li>Use phone reminders instead of memorizing everyone’s schedule.</li>



<li>Join a neighborhood school carpool so you’re not always the driver.</li>



<li>Keep a frozen or easy meal on hand for nights when cooking is too much.</li>
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<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Mistakes will happen, and that is okay. Your worth as a mom is not measured by perfectly packed lunches or a spotless kitchen. Focus on what really matters: connection, safety, and love. Each time you choose “good enough” over “perfect,” you chip away at the super mom myth.</p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading" id="h-how-do-i-practice-real-self-care-not-another-to-do">How do I practice real self-care (not another to-do)?</h2>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Self-care is not selfish; it is necessary. The super mom myth tells you that everyone else comes first and your needs can wait. In reality, taking even a few minutes for yourself can steady your mood and energy so you can show up for your family.</p>



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<li>Take a five-minute walk outside and breathe deeply.</li>



<li>Call or text your best friend for a quick check-in.</li>



<li>Listen to your favorite song while you unload the dishwasher.</li>
</ul>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">On the busiest days, make it a point to take at least one short break and do something you genuinely enjoy. These brief moments of rest can shift your whole day.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Self-care also means not overcommitting. The next time your child’s coach asks for volunteers, remember that you are allowed to say no. Protecting your time and inner peace is an important part of caring for your family. For simple, low-pressure outings, explore family-friendly events around Collier and Lee Counties using local community calendars instead of adding more stressful obligations.</p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading" id="h-how-do-i-find-connection-without-comparison">How do I find connection without comparison?</h2>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">When super moms feel stressed, they often pull away from others, which can make burnout feel even heavier. Finding connection can bring comfort, perspective, and much-needed empathy back into your life.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Connection can be simple:</p>



<ul class="wp-block-list">
<li>Reach out to one trusted mom friend and be honest about how you’re feeling.</li>



<li><a href="https://neafamily.com/naples-moms-and-dads-find-community-in-local-facebook-parent-groups/?utm_source=chatgpt.com">Join a local support group, parent group</a>, or faith community.</li>



<li>Say yes to coffee with another parent after drop-off now and then.</li>
</ul>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">As you build support, avoid the trap of comparing yourself to other moms. You see their highlight reel, not their hardest moments. Remember the motto: connection, not comparison. The right people will make you feel less alone, not less than.</p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading" id="h-why-does-my-own-health-matter-so-much">Why does my own health matter so much?</h2>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Moms are often excellent at managing their children’s appointments and vaccine schedules but skip their own checkups. Between work, after-school activities, and household tasks, your health can slip to the bottom of the list. Yet your physical health has a huge impact on how you feel and how you show up as a parent.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Regular visits with your primary care provider or OB/GYN help catch potential issues early and support your long-term well-being. These appointments are a chance to talk about sleep, mood, stress, appetite changes, and anything else that feels “off.”</p>



<ul class="wp-block-list">
<li>Schedule your annual primary care or OB/GYN visit and keep it on the calendar.</li>



<li>Mention ongoing fatigue, anxiety, or sleep problems to your doctor.</li>



<li>Ask questions about how stress might be affecting your body.</li>
</ul>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">You would not ignore these concerns for your child; your body deserves the same care and attention.</p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading">When is it time to get professional support for burnout?</h2>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Mom burnout can be a lonely and challenging experience. If you have tried resting more, saying no, and leaning on friends, and you still feel stuck, it may be time to talk with a mental health professional. There is no shame in asking for help. In fact, it is one of the bravest steps you can take.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">A licensed mental health counselor can help you:</p>



<ul class="wp-block-list">
<li>Rebuild joy and confidence in your daily life and in motherhood.</li>



<li>Understand what is driving your burnout.</li>



<li>Learn new ways to manage stress, guilt, and “super mom” pressure.</li>
</ul>
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		<title>Celebrate Mom with These 30 Motherhood Movies</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 29 Apr 2024 11:02:18 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Turn to moms of the silver screen for plenty of relatable reasons to laugh and cry, sometimes even simultaneously.</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This Mother’s Day, indulge Mom with these 30 films dedicated to all she does and the many faces and feelings that come with being a mother. Turn to moms of the silver screen for plenty of relatable reasons to laugh and cry, sometimes even simultaneously.</p>
<h6>Watch With Family of Any Age</h6>
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<p><strong>1. <em>The Sound Of Music</em></strong> (1965, G). From the moment this movie starts, you will cheer for Maria to say no to the nunnery and yes to seven mischievous children and their handsome father.</p>
<p><strong>2. <em>Mary Poppins</em></strong> (1964, G). Supercalifragilisticexpialidocious fun for a family desperately in need of some magical attention.</p>
<p><strong>3. <em>Brave</em></strong> (2012, PG). “What became of this precious daughter I once knew?” Disney brings us the classic mother-daughter conflict story willful-princess-style, without a suitor in sight.</p>
<p><strong>4. <em>Freaky Friday</em></strong> (2003, PG). Young ; Lohan holds her own opposite a veteran actress like Jamie Lee Curtis in this mixed-up mother-daughter remake.</p>
<p><strong>5. <em>The Incredibles</em></strong> (2004, PG). Holly Hunter is Elastagirl, just your average suburban mom with superpowers trying to cheer on her spouse, raise her kids, and save the world from mass destruction.</p>
<p><strong>6. <em>Little Women</em></strong> (1994, PG). You won’t find a better mother than Marmee, played by Susan Sarandon. She encourages her daughters to become who they are meant to be despite challenging times.</p>
<p><strong>7. <em>Secretariat</em></strong> (2010, PG). It’s a long shot for any horse to win the Triple Crown, but Penny Chenery, played by Diane Lane, is just the person who can make it happen.</p>
<p><strong>8. <em>Parental Guidanc</em>e</strong> (2012, PG). Old-school parenting collides with new-school parenting with entertaining results. Bette Midler and Marisa Tomei bring believability to Billy Crystal’s touching comedic riffs.</p>
<p><strong>9. <em>Places In The Heart</em> </strong>(1984, PG). During the Great Depression, Sally Field, a widow, struggles to keep her small cotton farm going after her husband is accidentally killed.</p>
<p><strong>10. <em>You Again</em></strong> (2010, PG). Kristin Bell is Marni, a total geek in high school with an archenemy named Joanna. Imagine her surprise when she finds out her seemingly all-together mom shared similar struggles on the eve of her brother’s wedding.</p>
<p><strong>11. <em>Baby Boom</em></strong> (1987, PG) A working woman inherits a baby girl during her yuppie days and gets schooled by the babe as to what matters in life.</p>
<h6>Watch With Tweens &amp; Up</h6>
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<p><strong>12. <em>Steel Magnolias</em></strong> (1989, PG). Sally Field plays mom to diabetic newlywed Julia Roberts in this heartfelt story of a big-time friendship sprung from small-town Louisiana life.</p>
<p><strong>13. <em>Motherhood</em></strong> (2009, PG-13). For every mom who has ever tried to throw a birthday party to beat all birthday parties while also trying to squeeze out an iota of time for self-expression, this Uma Thurman film is for you.</p>
<p><strong>14. <em>Now &amp; Then</em></strong> (1995, PG-13). Four grown women and best friends look back at the 12-year-old girls they were in 1970 as one of them prepares to deliver her first child.</p>
<p><strong>15. <em>Mother</em> </strong>(1996, PG-13). Albert Brooks is a grown man trying to figure out why he can’t have a successful love life while pointing fingers at his mother, Debbie Reynolds.</p>
<p><strong>16. <em>Parenthood</em> </strong>(1989, PG-13). It is an ensemble comedy focusing mainly on Steve Martin’s character but offers terrific mom performances from Mary Steenburgen, Diane Wiest, Harley Jane Kozak, Eileen Ryan, and Martha Plimpton.</p>
<p><strong>17. <em>Mamma Mia!</em> </strong>(2008, PG-13). It is a lighthearted musical that reprises ABBA tunes to tell the story of a young woman’s desire to find out about her real father.</p>
<p><strong>18.</strong> <strong><em>Anywhere But Here</em></strong> (1999, PG-13). Susan Sarandon is Nathalie Portman’s eccentric, pushy mother, who is on the verge of driving her daughter crazy.</p>
<p><strong>19. <em>The Help</em></strong> (2011, PG-13). Skeeter, an Ole Miss college graduate, comes home to help care for her ailing mother in the 1960s. To be taken seriously as a writer, she decides to write a tell-all book from the local maids’ point of view, reminding her of the woman who raised her.</p>
<p><strong>20.</strong> <strong><em>The Blind Side</em></strong> (2009, PG-13). At her insistence, Leanne Tuohy’s typically conservative family takes in a homeless teenager. “Big Mike’s” presence turns into a boon for the family as they rally around him to succeed against steep academic odds.</p>
<p><strong>21. <em>Joyful Noise</em></strong> (2012, PG-13). Two mothers, Queen Latifah and Dolly Parton, need to overcome their small-town rivalry if they want their church choir to have a shot at winning the national championship.</p>
<p><strong>22. <em>Bend It Like Beckham</em></strong> (2002, PG-13). A soccer career is not exactly what Jess Bhamra’s mother has in mind for her Indian daughter, especially when she bends the rules to reach her dreams.</p>
<p><strong>23.</strong> <em><strong>Home For The Holidays </strong></em>(1995, PG-13). Holly Hunter plays Clyde, a 40-something single mom who finds returning home to see her family has a way of making her act the same age as her teenage daughter.</p>
<p><strong>24. <em>Hope Floats</em></strong> (1998, PG-13). You had me at Sandra Bullock and Harry Connick Jr. fall in love again.</p>
<p><strong>25. <em>Juno</em></strong> (2007, PG-13). It’s a great way to kick off a discussion about some serious topics you might prefer to avoid. This film sheds light on teen pregnancy, divorce, and adoption with dignity and humor.</p>
<p><strong>26. <em>The Guilt Trip</em></strong> (2012, PG-13). A road trip movie with Barbara Streisand and Seth Rogen stays in the funny lane with a touching ending you won’t see coming.</p>
<p><strong>27.</strong> <strong><em>What To Expect When You’re Expecting</em></strong> (2012, PG-13). Five couples are pregnant, and not much is happening the way any of them expected. If you had a difficult pregnancy, this is the one to appreciate.</p>
<p><strong>28. <em>Fried Green Tomatoes</em></strong> (1991, PG-13). It is a captivating tale of an older woman who has outlived all her friends, only to make a new irreplaceable one in a housewife badly in need of a life makeover.</p>
<p><strong>29. <em>Stepmom</em> </strong>(1998, PG-13). Trying to sort out the challenges of divorce and re-coupling makes for a moving story of transformation for the whole family.</p>
<p><strong>30. <em>The Divine Secrets Of The Ya Ya Sisterhood</em> </strong>(2002, PG-13). Any woman with a trying relationship with her mother will enjoy the antics of Sandra Bullock vs. Ellen Burstyn and her girlhood Ya-Ya tribe.</p>
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<p><em>Author, journalist, and writing coach Christina Katz loves to celebrate motherhood, Hollywood-style, in all of its glorious complexity, preferably with a nice big bowl of freshly popped popcorn and a glass of Canada Dry ginger ale</em><em>.</em></p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Moms everywhere love information, cautionary tales, and personal experiences. More importantly, many moms just want to belong to a community of other moms, like themselves, who they can connect with in real life or online.</p>
<p>I did a brief inventory of my own group membership and found over 38 groups that had the word mom, family, or parent in the title. I belong to the groups I administrate for <em>Neapolitan Family</em>, plus some based on local mom interests, parents of students at Florida State University, University of Florida, and parents of students at both FSU and UF. Parents of Greeks, parents of pre-law, parents of study abroad, parents who belong to my same religion, and parents that have children with a disease in common.</p>
<p>There seems to be a Facebook group for every kind of parent of every kind of family. Launched in 2010, nearly six years after the inception of Facebook, groups can be public, private, or secret, and members can be accepted, denied, and blocked by the administrators and moderators. Even though most groups now offer the anonymous post option to maintain a safe space for the members, nothing on Facebook is ever 100% private.</p>
<p>In the pandemic era, communicating in groups became an even more important way for moms to stay connected. And, in response to difficulties brought on by the pandemic and the recent catastrophic hurricane, some groups began to offer financial support and donations to struggling moms, and even staged a few middle of the night escapes to women suffering from domestic abuse.</p>
<p>I spoke to several local moms’ groups, and one created just for dads, about the evolution of their groups and how they became such a powerful source of support in our community.</p>
<p><strong>Naples Moms 2.0: 21,100 members</strong></p>
<p>The Naples Moms Group (2.0) was founded in 2018 by Naples Realtor Judy Huntley. She created the group the same day that the original Naples Moms Group was archived without warning. Because of the size of the group, Judy relies on moderators Nadine Eubanks and Renee Kirnon to monitor posts and approve new members. The group is made up of new and seasoned moms, grandmothers, and moms-to-be.</p>
<p>The most popular topics are not surprising: baby weaning, breast feeding, general parenting, marriage troubles, and searching for babysitters, photographers, day care, and health care providers. Not surprisingly, off-limit topics included politics and opinions about circumcision and vaccines.</p>
<p>There are sub groups for more specific conversations such as Naples Moms Marketplace for members to sell their personal items or to advertise their businesses, Naples Moms Virtual/Homeschooling Co-Op, Naples Moms Newcomers, as well as their own neighborhood page, Golden Gate Estates Neighbors: Advice, Tips &amp; News.</p>
<p>The group also has hosted an annual holiday bazaar event, complete with mom-owned business vendors, entertainment, and food trucks.</p>
<p>Harnessing help beyond advice became a huge focus of the group in recent years. “During COVID, we paid rents and utilities and brought groceries to our fellow moms in need who found themselves suddenly without income,” Huntley told us. “We mobilized again after Hurricane Ian as we filled our members’ trunks with donated goods and brought them directly to the hardest hit areas in both Naples and Fort Myers, offering hope, water, ice, diapers, and even insulin. We fed an entire apartment complex of kids that hadn’t had power in weeks with a huge pizza party and brought loads of diapers and wipes.”</p>
<p>In addition to recent crises, the group raises thousands of dollars each Christmas and sends that money to surprise dozens of families who needed a little miracle. They also have helped pediatric cancer patients go on Disney trips, and delivered a carload of gifts, goods, and gift cards to a secret women’s shelter in Immokalee.</p>
<p>“We have a secret side group of women who have the resources to move mountains, and I can reach out to them with the bigger tasks,” Huntley says.</p>
<p>“One time, a group member submitted an anonymous post about needing a bus ticket out of here to get to family and away from an abuser,” she reflects. “My daughter and I drove straight over and brought them to The Shelter Naples. We ended up caring for her daughter briefly while she worked and got on her feet. I am happy and proud to say that today she is doing amazing, is employed, has her own place, and is getting married to a wonderful man. I am so proud to know her.”</p>
<p>Huntley says helping women who need to leave abusive relationships and start over has been some of the most “meaningful moments of my life.”</p>
<p><strong>The Real Moms of Naples: 13,000 members</strong></p>
<p>Around the same time Naples Moms 2.0 was created, another local mom and Realtor, Karly Carballea, created her own group. The Real Moms of Naples also is made up of all kinds of moms and caregivers who often belong to both groups to increase their crowdsourcing of information and opinions. For that reason, Carballea recently changed the name from Moms of Naples to The Real Moms of Naples so people would not get confused as to which group they were posting in. The topics are similar to the other mom groups but, according to Carbella, no subject is off limits as long as the conversation remains kind and respectful.</p>
<p>Carballea plans a monthly event that any member can attend so that they can meet other moms in real life and become friends, while patronizing the small, local businesses that often struggled during the pandemic and recent hurricanes. She also has planned volunteer events for local nonprofits such as Beverly’s Angels and Salvation Army, including a pop-up shop where families could select necessities from donated items. She currently is working on a project that will include a quarterly nonprofit event.</p>
<p><strong>Naples Moms of Tweens and Teens (MOTTS): 1,118 members</strong></p>
<p>This group was created by three moms because the local social media groups available in our area in 2019 were geared toward moms of infants, toddlers, and younger elementary-age children. “Parenting tweens and teens introduces daily challenges and practices in patience,” moderator Jennifer Stoneburner explains. “This group has developed a relaxed environment where moms understand that they are not alone in riding the roller coaster of parenting adolescents and budding adults.”</p>
<p>Stoneburner says that the best thing about the group is that the moms do not judge, and instead find ways to support, understand, and sympathize with one another.</p>
<p>She says the most popular posts are those that shine a humorous light on this chapter in our journey. Off-limit topics include religion, politics, and hate speech.</p>
<p>The group hosts a MOTTS Night Out the first week each month at a locally owned establishment, in addition to occasional daytime coffee meet-ups. “Personally, it has been amazing to observe the fellowship and the camaraderie among a group of like-minded women,” Stoneburner says. “Friendships have been forged in these monthly meet-ups, and that is what it is all about.”</p>
<p><strong>The Posh Mama Club of Naples: 118 members</strong></p>
<p>Moms who trend toward a more glamorous lifestyle, or who aspire to, will find like-minded mamas in The Posh Mama Club of Naples. Founded by Emely Darby, a former corporate social responsibility and public relations director, the club was created to become a safe haven for fashion-forward mothers who want a little bit of glitz and glam in between the tantrums, diaper changes, and chaos. </p>
<p>TPMC focuses on the mothers’ morale through fashion expression, networking, empowerment, and fun, Darby says. She is proud that this is a diverse group of like-minded current/former entrepreneurs, educators, attorneys, brokers, physicians, and stay-at-home mamas who share a passion for fashion, beauty, and staying active within the community.</p>
<p>Darby says that the most popular group topics are self-identity, empowerment, latest trends, business goals, self-reflection, and the next brunch or happy hour spot, with the goal of creating “genuine friendships with women who feel the same and creating a safe space away from conflict.”</p>
<p>The group hosts at least four private socials per month, plus a book club and a Posh Kids social.</p>
<p>TPMC hosts an annual “PoshGiving” to benefit The Shelter for Abused Women and Children, and has collaborated with Cancer Alliance of Naples, Humane Society, Make-A-Wish, Golisano Children’s Museum of Naples, and Juvenile Diabetes Research Foundation South Gulf Coast Chapter. </p>
<p><strong>Dads of Naples: 202 members</strong></p>
<p>Are there any Facebook groups just for local dads? We found one. Dads of Naples is moderated by Jay Weitzner, who owns Symmetry Exercise Clinic in Naples. The group was created for dads to have a place to connect and have a “dad-perspective” of events, topics, and things to do in general. While the group does not have as many members as the moms’ groups, Weitzner plans to host live events to build the group, which he says is diverse in every way, including, politically, professionally, and economically, but “it’s no Reddit,” he jokes.</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p> When my twins were first born, I had an endless amount of questions about child rearing.</p>
<p><i>Why aren’t they sleeping through the night?</i></p>
<p><i>Why is their poop changing colors?</i></p>
<p>And the question I asked the most often was</p>
<p><i>Why are they always crying?</i></p>
<p>Now that my twins are teens, in many ways I feel like a new mom again since raising teens is such a perplexing and confusing experience. Their behaviors are often hard for me to figure out. Like, <i>why do they always feel the need to close the door?</i> or <i>why do they want to spend every waking moment with their friends?</i></p>
<p>My initial reaction when I’m feeling bewildered (which is often) is to grab my phone and Google it. And then I wonder, <i>how did my mother raise me without an Internet connection?</i></p>
<p>Fortunately, parents do have the ability to easily find answers to their questions which will hopefully make parenting a teenager a little less daunting. As a former counselor for adolescents in a residential facility, I can answer some common questions asked by parents of teens and also provide links to articles for more information. Here are the top eight questions most Googled by parents of teenagers.</p>
<p><b>1. Why do teens do drugs?</b></p>
<p>During my time working with teens, there was a myriad of reasons why they choose to use drugs. It ranged from peer pressure to mental health issues (a form of self-medication).  Here is an article related to why some teens use drugs:</p>
<p>Suffering From Teen Drug Use: Why Do Teenagers Use Drugs?</p>
<p><u><a href="https://yourteenmag.com/health/drugs-alcohol/ask-the-parenting-expert-the-whys-of-teen-drug-abuse">https://yourteenmag.com/health/drugs-alcohol/ask-the-parenting-expert-the-whys-of-teen-drug-abuse</a></u></p>
<p>If you are concerned your teen is using drugs or alcohol this article discusses signs to look for and options to get treatment:</p>
<p>Signs of Alcohol Abuse and Drug Use in Teens: What To Look For</p>
<p><u><a href="https://yourteenmag.com/health/drugs-alcohol/teenage-drug-alcohol-use">https://yourteenmag.com/health/drugs-alcohol/teenage-drug-alcohol-use</a></u></p>
<p>The best way to help prevent your teen from using drugs is to have open communication with them about drugs and how they are feeling in all areas of their life (friends, school, sports, etc.). Here is an article related to the importance of communication in preventing drug use:</p>
<p>Teen Risk-Taking: What Should Parents Worry About?</p>
<p><u><a href="https://yourteenmag.com/health/drugs-alcohol/teen-risk-taking">https://yourteenmag.com/health/drugs-alcohol/teen-risk-taking</a></u></p>
<p><b>2. Why do teens cut themselves?</b></p>
<p>Cutting yourself is a form of self-injury. When I worked in the residential treatment center, often teens cut themselves as a way to deal with their depression or other negative emotions. If you notice your teen is cutting themselves it is important to seek the help of a mental health professional so your teen can learn more appropriate coping mechanism for dealing with their emotions. Here are some related articles:</p>
<p>Teen Self Harm: How Can You Help A Teenager Who Injures Herself?</p>
<p><u><a href="https://yourteenmag.com/health/teenager-mental-health/teen-self-harm">https://yourteenmag.com/health/teenager-mental-health/teen-self-harm</a></u></p>
<p>Dealing with Self-Injury: Understanding Risk And Helping Prevention</p>
<p><u><a href="https://yourteenmag.com/health/teenager-mental-health/self-injury-professional-advice">https://yourteenmag.com/health/teenager-mental-health/self-injury-professional-advice</a></u></p>
<p>Teenagers And Cutting: I Was A Teenage Cutter. How I Stopped Cutting</p>
<p><u><a href="https://yourteenmag.com/health/teenager-mental-health/cutting">https://yourteenmag.com/health/teenager-mental-health/cutting</a></u></p>
<p><b>3. Why do teens drink?</b></p>
<p>Similar to using drugs, teens often drink alcohol because of peer pressure or as a form of self-medication. Alcohol is also more accessible and acceptable to use than illegal drugs. Some of the teens I worked with had parents or who either used or abused alcohol, making it easy for them to obtain it. Here some related articles:</p>
<p>The Age-Old Question: Why Do Teenagers Drink Alcohol?</p>
<p><u><a href="https://yourteenmag.com/health/drugs-alcohol/underage-drinking">https://yourteenmag.com/health/drugs-alcohol/underage-drinking</a></u></p>
<p>Can You Prevent Underage Drinking? Realistic Ways to Talk About Alcohol</p>
<p><u><a href="https://yourteenmag.com/health/drugs-alcohol/real-talk-about-underage-drinking">https://yourteenmag.com/health/drugs-alcohol/real-talk-about-underage-drinking</a></u></p>
<p>Officer Pat Shares Facts About Teenage Drug And Alcohol Use</p>
<p><u><a href="https://yourteenmag.com/health/drugs-alcohol/officer-george-willis-why-teens-use-drugs-and-alcohol">https://yourteenmag.com/health/drugs-alcohol/officer-george-willis-why-teens-use-drugs-and-alcohol</a></u></p>
<p><b>4. Why do teens smoke?</b></p>
<p>Despite laws regulating smoking in select public areas and the increased price of cigarettes, teens still smoke cigarettes. In over fifty percent of the US states the law regarding the age to purchase tobacco is 18 which makes it more accessible than alcohol. The most common reason teens begin smoking is that their friends or parents smoke. Once they start, smoking is highly addictive. Here some related articles:</p>
<p>Teens Using Tobacco: Dip, Cigarettes, Hookahs and More</p>
<p><u><a href="https://yourteenmag.com/health/drugs-alcohol/using-tobacco-vaping-chewing-smoking">https://yourteenmag.com/health/drugs-alcohol/using-tobacco-vaping-chewing-smoking</a></u></p>
<p>How Many Teenagers Smoke: Is Teen Smoking Still Popular?</p>
<p><u><a href="https://yourteenmag.com/health/drugs-alcohol/teens-and-cigarettes">https://yourteenmag.com/health/drugs-alcohol/teens-and-cigarettes</a></u></p>
<p>There’s No Foolproof Way of Raising Teens: Warning Signs of Trouble</p>
<p><u><a href="https://yourteenmag.com/health/drugs-alcohol/teens-making-bad-choices">https://yourteenmag.com/health/drugs-alcohol/teens-making-bad-choices</a></u></p>
<p><b>5. Why do teens vape?</b></p>
<p>Vaping is smoking using an e-cigarette. Even though the user does not inhale tobacco, they are still inhaling a vapor containing nicotine. Currently, there are not any state laws requiring proof of age to purchase e-cigarettes which means it is easily attainable for teens. Since e-cigarettes don’t contain tobacco, teens believe it is a healthy option than a cigarette. Here some related articles:</p>
<p>Teenagers Are Smoking E-Cigarettes: Should We Worry About Vaping?</p>
<p><u><a href="https://yourteenmag.com/health/drugs-alcohol/ecigarettes-teens">https://yourteenmag.com/health/drugs-alcohol/ecigarettes-teens</a></u></p>
<p>Is Vaporizing Safer Than Smoking? Why Vaping Isn’t Healthy For Teens</p>
<p><u><a href="https://yourteenmag.com/health/physical-health/is-vaporizing-safer-than-smoking">https://yourteenmag.com/health/physical-health/is-vaporizing-safer-than-smoking</a></u></p>
<p>What is Juuling? The New Teen Vaping Device You May Not Recognize</p>
<p><u><a href="https://yourteenmag.com/health/physical-health/what-is-juuling">https://yourteenmag.com/health/physical-health/what-is-juuling</a></u></p>
<p><b>6. Why do teens need more sleep?</b></p>
<p>Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) recommends that teens sleep for 8-10 hours per night. Sleep is necessary to aid in physical, intellectual and emotional growth. But a teen’s busy schedules including sports, homework and spending time with friends often means a later bedtime combined with an early start time (my kids are on the bus at 6:40 am). The end result is not getting enough sleep. Here some related articles:</p>
<p>How Much Sleep Do Teens Need? More Than They’re Getting</p>
<p><u><a href="https://yourteenmag.com/health/physical-health/how-much-sleep-do-teens-need">https://yourteenmag.com/health/physical-health/how-much-sleep-do-teens-need</a></u></p>
<p>Teens Not Getting Enough Sleep? Practical Sleep Advice for Parents</p>
<p><u><a href="https://yourteenmag.com/health/physical-health/teens-sleep">https://yourteenmag.com/health/physical-health/teens-sleep</a></u></p>
<p>Sleeping Teens: Helping Your Teen Get A Better Night’s Sleep</p>
<p><u><a href="https://yourteenmag.com/health/physical-health/teen-sleep">https://yourteenmag.com/health/physical-health/teen-sleep</a></u></p>
<p><b>7. Why do teens get acne?</b></p>
<p>The exact cause of acne is unknown but hormones, stress and genetic do contribute to developing it. Since teens experience an increase in hormones this may be why they develop it more than adults do. The best treatment for acne is using facial cleanser and if necessary seeing a dermatologist. Here some related articles:</p>
<p>Dealing with Acne: There’s No Need to Suffer Through Life with Pimples</p>
<p><u><a href="https://yourteenmag.com/health/physical-health/teens-with-acne">https://yourteenmag.com/health/physical-health/teens-with-acne</a></u></p>
<p>Teenage Skin Problems: Acne, Skincare, and Sunscreen</p>
<p><u><a href="https://yourteenmag.com/health/physical-health/ask-doctor-acne-skincare-sunscreen">https://yourteenmag.com/health/physical-health/ask-doctor-acne-skincare-sunscreen</a></u></p>
<p>From Acne Myths to Causes: Acne Advice From Pediatric Dermatologists</p>
<p><u><a href="https://yourteenmag.com/health/physical-health/acne-advice-from-dermatologists">https://yourteenmag.com/health/physical-health/acne-advice-from-dermatologists</a></u></p>
<p><b>8. Why do teens die by suicide?</b></p>
<p>Suicide is a complex issue. Teens may commit suicide because they feel hopeless or pain due to depression. There are some incidents when teens felt bullied or experienced abuse that led to suicide. If you think your teen is having suicidal thoughts contact a mental health professional or call or text the National Suicide &amp; Crisis Hotline by dialing 988. Here some related articles:</p>
<p>What Parents Need to Know About Preventing Teen Suicide</p>
<p><u><a href="https://yourteenmag.com/health/teenager-mental-health/teen-suicide-prevention">https://yourteenmag.com/health/teenager-mental-health/teen-suicide-prevention</a></u></p>
<p>Discussing Teen Suicide and Prevention: What Do Our Teens Think?</p>
<p><u><a href="https://yourteenmag.com/health/teenager-mental-health/teen-suicide-and-prevention">https://yourteenmag.com/health/teenager-mental-health/teen-suicide-and-prevention</a></u></p>
<p>About Teen Depression: What To Look For and How To Discuss Suicide</p>
<p><u><a href="https://yourteenmag.com/health/teenager-mental-health/teen-suicide-prevention-professional-advice">https://yourteenmag.com/health/teenager-mental-health/teen-suicide-prevention-professional-advice</a></u></p>
<p>This article was originally published on <a href="https://yourteenmag.com/">Your Teen</a>.</p>
<h6><em>Local Resources in Southwest Florida:</em></h6>
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<p><a href="https://davidlawrencecenters.org/">David Lawrence Centers for Behavioral Health</a></p>
<p><a href="https://www.saluscareflorida.org/">SalusCare Behavioral Health</a></p>
<p><a href="https://avowcares.org/avow-kids/">Avow Kids (ages 5-17)</a></p>
<p><a href="https://covenantnaples.com/care#covenantcounseling">Covenant Counseling</a></p>
<p><a href="https://healthcareswfl.org/">Healthcare Network of SWFL</a></p>
<p><a href="https://naplesal-anon.org/">Al-Anon/Alateen </a></p>
<p><a href="https://swflresourcelink.com/providers/mobile-crisis-response-team">Mobile Crisis Response Team</a></p>
<p><a href="https://swflresourcelink.com/search/">Southwest Florida Resource Link by Healthcare Planning Council of SWFL</a></p>
<p><a href="https://youthhavenswfl.org/">Youth Haven </a></p>
<p><em>Cheryl Maguire holds a Master of Counseling Psychology degree. She is married and the mother of twins and a daughter. Her writing has been published in Parents Magazine, Upworthy, Chicken Soup for the Soul: Count Your Blessings and Twins Magazine. You can find her at Twitter @CherylMaguire05</em></p>
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